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My Friends Hogged Daughter Is Getting Married

The asses don't get to win

Toni Crowe
3 min readSep 7, 2023

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I finally received an invitation I was waiting for. It made my day. A few years ago, a friend of mine’s daughter was the victim of a hogging incident. I have known this woman since she was a child. It broke my heart to see her broken.

What is Hogging?

“Hogging or sweat hogging refers to the practice of groups of men who target overweight or obese women, typically for sexual encounters. Unlike fat fetishists, men who participate in hogging are not necessarily sexually attracted to obese women’s bodies; they aim to take advantage of a female’s stereotypical low self-esteem” — — Sarah Fenske, “Big Game Hunters” Cleveland Scene. Village Voice Media.

I wrote about it here.

Hogging is when cruel men deliberately romance a woman who is heavier just to humiliate her. It traumatizes the woman and amuses the men.

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Toni Crowe

Sharing the hard lessons I've learned in life. Best-selling author. Humorist. Editor. Writing whatever interests me . Owner: No Air. Editor:MuddyUm.