No. No. And no. Your husbands female friend is skanky. Skanky women can be young, accomplished and beautiful. Still skanky, tho. There are boundaries to being the female friend of a married man. I don’t allow women in my HOME who are not respectful. She knows better. I would put her firmly and politely out of my house. Don’t come back without an understanding of who I am. My house. My man. So disrespectful of herself and me.. Poor me stories are a precursor to bad shit.