I want you only for tonight
We Can Have Casual Sex If I Don’t Have to Talk To You
One and done
One of my nieces lives in Southern California. She is twenty-four, a college graduate, working for money-she does not have the job she loves yet. She called to tell me about a young man she met at a restaurant and wanted to know what I thought about her attitude.
The man was sitting at another table in a mostly empty place. He came over and asked if she wanted company. He was visually stunning. Tall, dark, clean, smelling delicious, built nice, polite. It was lust at first sight.
There was just one thing wrong. He was as dumb as a sack of hammers. She thinks he has never had to make an effort. He lacked social skills like many very attractive people; folks give them leeway to make mistakes and still be successful.
She said his conversation was riddled with inaccuracies. She thought talking to him would lower her intelligence. Still, she accepted a date from him and brought him to her home after that first date to have sex with him.
“In essence, casual sex is a way of enjoying the physical intimacy of sex without the emotional, practical, or romantic components of love or a committed relationship.” verywellmind.com, What Is the Impact of Casual Sex on Mental…
